You might have heard how trauma can blur our sense of time and place. We can be reacting to something in the present moment but really our reaction is informed by something that happened in the past.
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It’s that time of year. We are moving into holiday season and hurtling our way to the end of the year. We can help mitigate some of the disappointment, burn out, angst, and tension of the season by going in thoughtfully, approaching these next weeks with groundedness and a sense of what we each need to feel a little more ok.
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If you’ve found yourself here, you likely know someone who is grieving or are grieving yourself. It can be hard to figure out how to navigate a season of grief, how to support those around us who are grieving.
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While we all experience major life transitions, there are a few significant moments that can be especially profound in the lives of women. The kind of major life transitions I’m thinking of can bring up a lot of emotions and can impact the kind of coping skills or resources we need to manage these changes well.
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When you have someone around you who you know has experienced trauma, this is the first invitation in service of supporting them: be curious and compassionate. It is not uncommon for people to minimize their own experiences or feel shame about them.
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Some of us may really struggle with transitions and feel disoriented, out of sync, or disconnected from ourselves. If we pause for a moment, our emotional landscape can clue us in to how we’re feeling and what we might need.
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You may have noticed there’s a lot going on in our political news right now. This can feel true so much of the time, but tensions have really ramped up during this election year.
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As a couples therapist that often supports people with concerns around sex and intimacy, here are a few key takeaways from Sex Talks that I think can quickly begin to move the needle when couples are stuck.
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Guilt is the feeling that lets us know when we’ve done something wrong. This is an important part of our psychological make-up that helps us know when we’ve done something hurtful or harmful and need to repair it.
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Self-regulation allows us to take our nervous system out of fight/flight/freeze and into a state that say “I’m ok.” Wondering how to do that? You’re probably already doing it. Here are a few go-to ways to regulate and get grounded when you’re freaking out.
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